The Big 3-0 a Reunion to Remember!

by Mike Holder
DHS 1975 Reunion Committee, DHSClassOf1975.com Webmaster
and Chief Llama Wrangler

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Strolling into the Holiday Inn - Fairlane Friday afternoon, hand cart loaded to the max with sound equipment, I needed some confirmation that this was going to be a great reunion.  A reunion like none other before it.  An event to rival all previous events.  One that didn't suck.  I needed a sign - some irrefutable evidentiary omen that this reunion was going to be better that the ones before it.

As I walked up to McKenna's to say hi to Laura (Bruhn) Tolbert, Joyce (Burns) Graylish and Sherry (Bassett) Muller, there it was.  The unmistakable, undeniable confirmation I needed.  It was the Red Hat Society - elderly ladies over 30 strong - with their red hats, purple dresses, and red hat accessories (one even had an umbrella adorned with dozens of miniature red hats).  From that moment on I not only knew that this reunion was going to be one to remember, but that I had to reexamine my faith in Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy and the Detroit Lions (well, two out of three ain't bad).

The Friday night Happy Hours welcome reception at the Holiday Inn proved to be one of the biggest in quite awile - since at least 1995.  Over 100 classmates came out to keep this traditional event alive.  Dean Jenner kept the "Everclear Cherries" tradition alive as well ("Sign a name tag and get a cherry.").  The cherries were my nemesis, since 150+ proof alcohol and yelling over the noise to get everyone's attention proved to be a bad combination for the old vocal cords.  You know you have a noisy crowd when 200-watts of audio power is dwarfed by everyone having a great time!  The 50/50 raffle was a success as well with over $500 of ticket sales.  Big thanks to John Lewy and Sherry (Bassett) Muller for their ticket sales finesse. Congrats to Jeff Gniewek for having the winning ticket, though we were all bummed he didn't buy a round for the house (we got over it, though).  And, last but not least, a big thank you John Leone and David Snabes for getting an additional round of pizzas for the crowd (the veggie pie was surpurb!).

Saturday began with a group of classmates who could drag themselves out of bed by 10 AM and meet in front of Dearborn High for a group photo in front of the old place.  We had company at our group photo session at DHS - the DHS Cheerleaders were there having a car wash to raise money for new uniforms (I guess they are still using the ones from back when we were there in the '70s).  Several of the group stepped up and had their cars washed to help out the cause (though I think some of the guys in the group had ulterior motives).  While we were there we met the cheerleading coach, who just happens to be DHS 1975 classmate Sharon (Baughman) Hoff's sister-in-law (Hey, Sharon, your sister-in-law wants to know why you didn't come to the reunion?).  She was very helpful and grabbed several classmate cameras to take our picture in front of the sign at the entrance by the auditorium.

Then it was off to Dearborn Hills for the Golf Scramble/Lunch.  I did not go because I had to set up equipment at Park Place, but Carl Meyers ensured me that the Scramble was a big success.  36+ golfers went at it competing for longest drive, closest to the pin, and straightest shot while under the influence of cherries (Man, those things get around!).  After a fun round of golf, everyone retired to the clubhouse for liquid refreshments (and yes, more cherries!).

Then, after a shower and change of clothes, it was time for the main event of the weekend - The Big 3-0 Big Bash at Park Place.  Owner Gary Kuhlman was very accommodating and many thanks for all his help and hospitality (my Dad says hello from L.A.!).  The old place was so much bigger than we remember it with all the additions and remodeling.  The food was spectacular with burgers, dogs, sausages, salads, fruits, and, of course, the world famous Park Place Chicken.

Click here to hear a message to the class from WOMC-FM's Dick Purtan (MP3)

After dinner, the reminiscing began.  It was a treat seeing Keith Gregor somewhere other than an L.L. Bean catalog and seeing and hearing Dave Parker (A.K.A. "Daba") in the flesh instead of in a Big Boy radio ad or my DVD copy of "Escanaba In Da Moonlight"!  So many old 'mates - Jon Sherman, John Leone, Susan Ashton, Roland Bauer, Barb Beale, Ginny Daly, Debbie Gorski, Bill Lancaster, Dan "The Man" Price, Jan Merkle, Colleen Lough.  It was too cool seeing Chris Bodurow again after all these years, and even cooler she brought her sister Constance with her :-) (DHS 1977).

Then it was raffle time - Big Bash style.  Over $600 was raised for the DHS 1975 Reunion Committee.  Char (Finley) Reese-Oxford did a spectacular job organizing the Big Bash Raffle, getting some great prize donations.  Mucho thanks to prize doners and wranglers Charles Flynn, Dan Wood, John Lewy, Leslie (Mayer) Davis, Debbie (Murphy) Knurek, Marty Roberts, Char (Finley) Reese-Oxford, Dan Oxford, Ken Melcher, Bill "The Spice-Man" Kokas, the DHS 1975 Reunion Committee, Polk Audio, XM Satellite Radio, and Colleen Croxall and her husband Dave. (Sorry about the "goats milk soup" thing.  I had the Rolling Stones' "Goats Head Soup" album on my mind earlier.)  Congrats to all the winners!

Then back to more reminiscing and the traditional taking of the elementary / junior high class group shots (I didn't know Daba and I had so many transfers in the Dearborn Public School system).  The Red Hat ladies Friday night were a true sign - so many classmates came up to Diane and I thanking us for our efforts and telling us what a great time they had! Then it was on to Trail Bar for the afterglow / nightcap before we all made our journeys back home.

All in all, it was truly a weekend to remember!  On behalf of Diane and myself, thank you to all of you who came out and helped make The Big 3-0 Reunion Weekend a wonderful event and a great success by attending and participating.  For those of you who didn't come back to Dearborn for the DHS Class Of 1975 Big 3-0 Year Reunion Weekend, you sure missed one helluva party!  And at our next reunion, I will be sure to invite the Red Hat Society.

See you all the next go 'round!

P.S:  I know there were quite a bit of you with digital cameras clicking away during the Big 3-0 Weekend, so how about sharing your pictures with the class in the DHSClassOf1975.com Photo Galleries?  Normally, I would have taken more pics myself, but Diane made me promise her that I'd actually enjoy this reunion. So, click here to find out how you can share those digital pics with everyone.